Girls are such crybabies!!!!?

Based on what you wrote I can only conclude that you are insecure about your strength as an individual. Look it, crying is a natural human response, stereotypically ociated with feebleness. Be grateful that someone is offering you a shoulder to cry. Why should you be mortified by that? If you want to be a person of real strength I will recommend you to start by rejecting all types of social stereotypes and life your life happy about what you are...